Resilient Transitions
Embrace change with confidence
Resilient Transitions — Using One Big Change to Build Skills for Life
How children learn to navigate change can shape how they respond to challenge, uncertainty and new beginnings throughout life.
Starting secondary school is one of the most significant transitions of childhood. New relationships, routines, expectations and environments can bring excitement, uncertainty, social pressure and worry — often all at the same time.
Resilient Transitions uses this important real-life experience as an opportunity to build psychological fitness.
Children learn practical skills to understand their emotions, regulate themselves, think more flexibly and realistically, connect with others, ask for help and make plans when things feel uncertain.
These skills support children before they start secondary school, as they settle into Year 7, and long after the transition itself has passed.
Because the aim is not simply to help children get through one change. It is to help them recognise:
“I can understand what is happening, I have skills I can use, and I can adapt.”
That learning can transfer to future changes, setbacks, new relationships, increasing independence and the many unfamiliar situations young people will encounter as they grow.
Lessons
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Resilient Transitions: Life is a Journey
Before children can embrace what's ahead, they need to feel safe enough to talk about it. The first lesson sets the tone for the whole series — creating a safe, honest space where feelings about change are welcomed, not dismissed. Pupils explore what it really means that life is a journey, share what they're genuinely looking forward to, and begin to name the emotions that come with stepping into the unknown. They're introduced to Finger Breathing as their first practical calming tool, and create their own personal safe space — a grounding resource they can return to whenever things feel overwhelming. From the very first session, pupils leave with something real and useful in their hands.
Resilient Transitions: Thoughts and Feelings
It's not what happens to us that shapes how we feel. It's what we tell ourselves about it. Through the stories of Tia and Tomas, pupils are introduced to one of the most powerful ideas in the whole series — that our Beliefs about events, not the events themselves, drive how we feel and behave. This single insight can change everything. Using the ABC model, pupils begin to see the gap between what happens and how they respond — and realise that gap is where their power lies. They meet the Gremlins for the first time: the Me voice that says it's all your fault, the Them voice that says it's nothing to do with you, and the Always voice that says it will never get better. Recognising these patterns is the first step to not being controlled by them. A focused maze activity closes the lesson with a practical experience of deliberately directing attention — a skill that underpins everything that follows.
Resilient Transitions: Making Choices
Our brains take shortcuts. Sometimes those shortcuts lead us straight to the wrong conclusion. Building on what pupils now know about ABC and the Gremlins, this lesson goes deeper — exploring how our thinking style shapes the choices we make and the stories we tell ourselves. Through Tia and Tomas, pupils spot Gremlin Beliefs in action and begin to understand the difference between pessimistic and optimistic thinking, not as personality types, but as habits that can be changed. An Observation Test film brings the lesson to life with a surprising demonstration of how easily we miss what's right in front of us — because our minds are already decided. From there, pupils learn to think like detectives, actively seeking multiple explanations for events rather than defaulting to the first (often harshest) belief that shows up. Worksheets give pupils the chance to practise reframing their own Gremlin Beliefs, and the lesson closes with visualised breathing — leaving them calm, grounded and a little more curious about their own thinking.
Resilient Transitions: Taking Control
When change feels overwhelming, having the right tools makes all the difference. This lesson is where the toolkit really starts to take shape. Pupils learn three practical strategies they can reach for whenever things feel out of control — and each one is immediately usable in real life. First, a gratitude letter — a simple but powerful way to strengthen the relationships that matter most, especially when everything else is shifting. Then WoBbLe, one of the most memorable tools in the series, which teaches pupils to balance the catastrophising voice in their head by deliberately considering the best case alongside the worst — and landing on what's most likely. Suddenly the thing that felt unbearable looks a lot more manageable. A visualisation exercise then gives pupils a way to step back from strong emotions and view them from a distance — creating space between feeling and reaction. The lesson closes with the Five Ways to Wellbeing, and pupils make a personal pledge to put them into practice — leaving not just with knowledge, but with a commitment to themselves.
Resilient Transitions: Making My Transition Plan
Everything they've learned. Everything they've practised. Now it all comes together. The final lesson is a moment of genuine celebration and consolidation. Pupils revisit what resilience really means and recognise — often with surprise — how much of it they've already built over the course of the series. They connect these qualities directly to the transition ahead, reframing secondary school not as something to survive, but as somewhere they are genuinely ready for. A 'Me at My Best' activity helps pupils build a clear, positive picture of who they are and what they bring — the kind of self-concept that carries young people through uncertainty with confidence rather than fear. From there, they look forward, imagining themselves thriving in their new school. The lesson culminates in each pupil creating their own personal Transition Plan — drawing together every tool from the series into something uniquely theirs. Their calming techniques, their ABC thinking, their Gremlin reframes, their WoBbLe, their gratitude practice, their Five Ways to Wellbeing. Not a worksheet to hand in. A resource to keep, return to, and use. They arrived at lesson one not sure what was ahead. They leave lesson five ready for it.
About the organisation
Bounce Forward
Bounce Forward is the UK’s psychological-fitness charity.
We help children and young people — and the adults and environments around them — develop the understanding, skills and shared language to regulate, recover and adapt through challenge, change and everyday life.
Our work brings together mental resilience and emotional wellbeing, shifting the focus upstream: building capability before crisis, rather than waiting for something to go wrong. We translate evidence from psychology, resilience research, cognitive behavioural approaches and positive psychology into practical learning that can be taught, modelled and used in real life.
From evidence-informed curricula and staff development to family support and whole-community approaches, our work recognises that young people do not develop in isolation. What happens around a young person shapes what becomes possible within them.
Everything we create is practical, grounded in evidence and designed to build something that lasts — psychologically fit people and communities, better prepared to meet life.